Operator Manual (English)

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This manual is intended for computer use only so please do not print it on paper, taking into account the environmental factors. This manual is intended for training and informational purposes.

At IndianSexTalk.Com we are constantly trying to improve our services. We strive our operators’ performance to increase and thus the services we are offering become more qualitative. The aim of this manual is for operators to get a first touch of what working in this field is all about. If you go through the manual carefully, you will find useful information that helps you improve and thus receive longer and more frequent calls.

You will find useful information on what a call is all about, basic requirements for optimum work performance and examples of conversations which might help you in various ways.

We also offer technical assistance and very prompt reply to your requests, trying to make your stay with us as pleasant as possible. For any questions you might have please do not hesitate to contact us at operator@indiansextalk.com

Introduction

Phone sex is a form of virtual Sex with 2 people engaged in sexual chat or discussion over the telephone. Many couples have at one time or another experienced phone sex. Phone sex can be as simple as a flirty and fun conversation, or a hot and steamy eroticism. Being a Phone Sex Operator can be extremely rewarding “IF” you have the right skills and the proper training. Phone Sex Operators are part of a BOOMING industry! Phone Sex Operators are a growing proportion of the industry as individuals are looking for ways to make money outside of a traditional nine-to-five career or job.

Phone Sex Operators unlike so many other professionals in the adult industry can work from the comfort of their homes, set their own hours and most importantly, keep their identities totally private, safe and secure.

There’s much more to being a Phone Sex Operator than many people could possibly imagine. Even some of the most experienced operators have not learned how to make serious money by becoming a professional Phone Sex Operator.

Before you start your day at work

Since you are going to be on the phone for hopefully a while, make sure you’ve gone to the bathroom prior to taking the call. Pour yourself a cup of tea or coffee, and find a comfortable place to sit. Be sure you have access a quiet background, maybe you might try some soft background music, relaxing chill out music.

The first thing you have to do when starting a phone sex chat is to relax — whatever you’re feeling will come across in your voice, so try to project calm confidence. If you feel nervous or uptight then the other person will sense it.

Tips for Longer Calls

1. Smile!

If you are smiling when you talk, your callers will know that you are smiling and it will lift their mood. Remember that many callers might be nervous and it could be their first time having a phone sex chat

2. Listen to the caller.

This is one of THE MOST IMPORTANT parts in any conversation. Listening to a caller guarantees that you understand the caller better. Listening well to someone can be more difficult than it seems, as you have to concentrate on what he is saying and not on what you are going to say yourself. But it is highly valuable. The caller will feel like he is understood and that is what everyone wants in life, to be understood. And if you understand a person better, you can also cater to his needs way better.

3. ASK questions

Try not to rush things when you start to talk, try to enjoy every moment as it will build up the sexual excitement between you both. Also don’t be shy!!

To have the best phone sex you both need to ask or find out what turns each other on. You will have first have to find their needs in order to fulfill them. So ask them what they like, what gets them going and don’t be shy to say what turns you on either. The more honest you are during your phone sex conversation the better it will be. (of course this does not count for giving out personal contact/address details etc. This is strictly forbidden at all times)

4. Tease

Once you know what turns your phone sex partner on, you can begin teasing your partner with the fantasy of what you would like to do to them or what you would like them to do with you if you were together right there and then.

5. VOICE OUT your feelings

Make sure you say how you are feeling. If you are feeling horny and turned on then tell them as it will excite them in turn. Men especially like to hear how much a woman is turned on so again make sure you give plenty of details. Tell them how your body is reacting to them. Let you partner hear you moan and orgasm.

6. Dirty Talk

Don’t be embarrassed about talking dirty to the other person if they like it. There are two ways you can talk dirty, you can do it mildly as in, “I want to make love to you and make you hard until you reach orgasm” or you can talk really dirty as in, “I want to fuck you

Having phone sex, it all depends on what you and the other person likes. The only way you can find out what your phone sex partner likes is by asking them.

7. Compliment the caller

Try to compliment the other person if you are having a good time.“Gosh you are turning me on so much, I haven’t felt this excited in a long time” but don’t forget to give the details. “you are making my smooth pussy so wet and my nipples are aching for you.”

8. Ask the caller to call you back & to leave a comment

When you sense that the call is about to end, do tell the caller that you have enjoyed talking to him and ask him to call you back. Also remind him to leave a comment on our website about you if hasn’t done that yet. Leaving a comment should only be asked once.

Starting the Call

Smile and greet the caller in a pleasant manner, then introduce yourselves to each other and let the caller know you are happy that he called you.

Tip: If it is a new caller it will be good to ask the caller why he chose to call you. This will immediately tell you what he likes about you and you can elaborate on that subject. It also creates the opportunity for you to inform about him, since you know nothing about him yet but he already knows some things about you from your profile.

Tip: Do not just answer the phone and say “Hi,” use pet names, like “Hey baby” or “Hey daddy.” Men really like that.

During the call

Note: Make sure you do not immediately jump to the sexual part of the conversation. Note that sexual calls tend to end quickly. The best and longest calls are the ones where people build friendships and get to know each other better.

(see : “The best calls are friendship calls” below)

However, if the caller directs towards a sexual conversation, you make sure you give him what he wants. Some callers do not have many credits and want to get right down to business.

∞ Enquire about your caller and inform him about yourself. Be elaborate and give many details.

For example: if a caller asks you what you are wearing, don’t just say that you are wearing pink underpants with a pink bra. Be detailed about it. You can tell him that you are wearing pink underpants that has a heart shaped out in the middle. That it is made of lace and that it has little strings on the sides. Then in addition, you are wearing a matching pink bra that also has lace and that it is just a little bit too small for your boobs. Then you can ask him if he likes pink underwear, what his favourite colour is, etc.

∞ Don’t forget to ask questions! After describing yourself or your day or any other matter in detail, you ask him that same question back.

For example: If you have described about your underwear, then you can ask him what he is wearing or what his favourite underwear is. Does he like stockings? or maybe G- strings?

If you tell him about your day, then afterwards ask him how his day was. Once he starts speaking about his favourite underwear or day, you can ask specific questions about what he just told you.

Example call with questions back:

Caller: so Angel, what are you wearing?

You: I’m wearing a black bra with red roses on it and matching panties with high stockings. I just bought these last week at (name of shop) and they make me feel very sexy. Do you like black underwear (name of caller)?

Caller: Sure.. I like it.

You : ok…so is that your favourite colour or do you prefer red underwear maybe? Caller.. Yeah, i think i like red colour the best.

You.. aah, yes .. me too . i have lots of red underwear, but I wanted to change it up a little bit..I don’t want to wear red every day. It gets boring you know. So, what are you wearing right now ? Are you just in your underwear too?

Caller: Ooh.. right now I’m wearing… etc.

Closing the Call

The close of your call involves a statement that “wraps up” the call, and lets the caller know that the call is going to end. Often callers will hang up after they have accomplished their objective; therefore, a strong close is necessary when given the opportunity. This is your opportunity to make a lasting, positive impression on your caller.

The close of your call should include the following elements:

• Stroke the caller’s ego – compliment him
• Give the caller your profile name one more time
• Encourage the caller to call you again

Example:

“John, I’ve been waiting to talk to a real man all day, and you have made me feel so good. Don’t you dare hang up. I want to spend every bit of it with you. Remember, my name is (give your profile name). I can’t wait to talk to you again, so make sure you leave me feedback. Every time the phone rings, I’ll be thinking of you.”

Example:

“I am truly having a great time with you and I must connect with you again. I don’t get this feeling all the time… Don’t ever forget my name, it’s (give the caller your profile name)“

BEST calls are FRIENDSHIP calls

Our customers don’t just call in for phone sex. Very often they are looking for friendships or they just feel lonely and want someone to talk to that will not judge them. They may open up about private lives. They may speak about their families, their jobs their hobbies or certain emotions they have.

You should always try to listen and be sympathetic. You might comfort them and say that you understand them. Or let them know about your own experiences with certain similar situation. What is very important that you don’t judge them and do not try to impose your opinion on them. But of course you can always share how you feel about certain things, especially if they ask.

Then again it may also be a fun conversation too. These are often appreciated a lot. Where you both share information and laugh about certain things. You can be free to show your own personality as it will work best.

Note that if you do notice that the customer wants to have a sex talk, you should absolutely cater to his needs. Do not try to delay openly as it will not be appreciated by the caller. However you can still ask him about what he likes, if he is turned on, or how does he want you to please him, etc.

Sample recordings for better calls

1. The first recording has a very simple purpose. Please note the way the operator’s voice is very pleasant and how she talks to the customer. The next aspect is how easily and naturally she describes to the customer what she is wearing. We want to point out the three important factors in this recording:
   • delicate voice
   • great attitude towards customer and work
   • always smiling!

https://media.plivo.com/v1/Account/MAODA2ZMY2YMIXYZVJYZ/Recording/9b6553 30-b20c-11e8-969b-12a80d7e2da2.mp3

1. The second recording is a longer recording and is an example of talk between two people. Please observe how she moved the conversation from sex towards a different kind of discussion. We want to point out the important factors in this recording:
   • asking questions
   • notice how the operator refused to give out/accept any personal information the client asked/offered
   • the operator entertains the caller 

https://s3.amazonaws.com/recordings_2013/dac3c516-2b48-11e8-b588- mp3

3. The third recording shows a returning customer, he bought additional minutes to call the operator again. The main things about this conversation are:
   • asking many questions about the caller
   • be a good listener
   • talk about anything not just sex

https://s3.amazonaws.com/recordings_2013/ef6a3968-1dd9-11e8-9406-0afe1d2469be.mp3

** To listen to the recordings you either CTRL + click on the link or you can copy the link into your browser and you can listen to it and improve your calls.

IMPORTANT NOTES:

1. All operators are required to have a monthly average call duration of minimum 03:00 minutes. This does NOT mean however that ALL your calls need to be 3 minutes short. The LONGER the call is the BETTER!
2. We will need to perform a short test regarding the user manual therefore we strongly advise you to study the manual and the recordings.