Behind the scenes with an Indian phone sex operator

Today Indian phone sex is in high demand in India. A few reasons for that are because it’s anonymous, relatively new, exciting and a whole lot of fun. The people who call to these telephone services have recognized it to be something that is out of the ordinary and it brings a thrill into their lives. But what about the people who talk to the callers? Yes, the Indian phone sex operators (pso’s). Of course without them there would not be any fun. So how do they experience it? Do they see it as strictly working, or do they get the same kick out of it as the people do that make the calls? Phonesex.in has done an interview with a few of its operators that are making a living out of this. We wanted to give a clear picture about what’s going on on the other side of telephone sex lines in India. The global idea people have about pso’s is that they are sitting behind a desk having dirty talks with people calling them. Screaming and moaning, gasping and puffing about how hot and horny they are feeling. Of course this is partially true, but there is some more to it than just that. Contrary to public believe, many costumers do not call just to have hot and steamy sex conversations. Of course many do, but there is quite a big group of callers that call for reasons other than just to have Indian phone sex.

Q&A with an Indian phone sex girl, everybody wants to know.

We have interviewed “Sharmila”, as she is a trusted and very popular girl on our website. She gets a lot of calls every day and has a steady base of recurring customers. She knows how the business works and has gained a lot of experience in the 3 years working with us.

1. How did you enroll into the Indian phone sex business?

Good question, well it’s pretty simple. I always found myself being interested in the adult business. From being quite young I always knew that my voice and body was a desire for lots of men. Being a big city girl in India, you get a lot of attention from the men walking around. So I felt I had to do something with this, and of course in the beginning the taboo/secrecy about sex was something that made it very exciting. I always considered myself as being open minded and western oriented. In our own culture sex and all that has to do with the concept, is still a taboo and not accepted by the main public. Of course it’s being done by everyone, but openly talking about it, or making money with it in some form or manner is just not done. At some point I got in contact with indiansextalk.com and I figured I might as well give it a try as it had always drawn my attention. I also looked at other companies providing this service, but this was the only company that send out a good vibe, as many others seemed highly unprofessional and paid very poorly.

2. Can you explain what an average working day looks like?

Well, basically, I get up in the morning, have a small breakfast and take a quick shower. Then, after getting dressed, i log into the system. Or at times I don’t even dress up at all, depending on how I feel that day. When I log into the system, I get connected with the website and my profile will show up as being available. When a caller selects me to have a chat with him I get a call from the system, pick up the telephone and the fun begins. I just love my job, because every day is a different experience. The variety of people you interact with makes it really great. Also, I can do my job whenever I want . Working from home does have some serious advantages. After a couple of hours of work, I may go out and buy some groceries or clean up the house, or whatever I prefer doing at that moment. I really love the control I’m having in my own life. I can decide when I work and for how long. In between my calls I can watch a bit of TV, do some chores or basically do whatever I want to. I just need to make sure I don’t miss my calls of course, haha. That has happened before unfortunately. But that has been a rare exception.

3. What is the strangest call you ever had as an Indian phone sex girl?

Haha, oh wauw, I got quite a few strange ones in all these years. So I’ll have to think of one that really stands out. You know, at first, I kind of felt akward with some requests some of the callers had, but after a while I wasn’t surprised with strange requests anymore and i got totally used to it. In fact, I now like it when I get an unusual request because I love a challenge and also, I like to know what goes on in people’s minds. When I just started I was stunned to find out that a lot of men liked to be humiliated and treated like garbage. I always knew that some men loved that but I never knew there were so many that are into this. But there was this one guy, he wanted me to treat him like a real baby. You know, talk to him as if he was a 2 year old and I was his mother. That was a difficult one for me to be honest. I think I could have dealt with him better now that I’m more experienced but he called in my starting phase and looking back on it now, I think that it really wasn’t my best performance. Yeah, I definitely think that that was the strangest request I had in my career so far as an Indian phone sex worker. But there were a few more that came pretty close too. I won’t elaborate on it since I just ate like 30 minutes ago and it involves some really nasty stuff, hahaha, I can tell you that. But those are the most extreme calls and are pretty exceptional. In general it’s just normal hot and steamy conversations.
But there are also a lot of men that are having trouble communicating with women in general and so they ask me for advice you know. Like what would be the best way to initiate a conversation with a woman, what do women like etc. etc. I then just try to explain to them that in my opinion it is all about confidence for a woman, you know. It really doesn’t matter which opening line you use for a woman. It’s more that, if you act real insecure and stuff, a woman will not be attracted to you in most cases, you know. Sometimes men also want to know how to satisfy their wives, which is pretty difficult to tell them of course, since every woman has different preferences. So I always ask questions about what they are doing now in the bedroom and try to give some tips afterwards. In many occasions men only want to talk and all I do is listen and give them some advice or comfort when needed. So in a way being an Indian phone sex girl involves a whole lot more than just hot erotic conversations. It also involves acting as somewhat of a sex educator or giving relationship tips you know, trying to make them understand what is important to women. I’m always really glad when I get these kind of calls because as you know many men only think about themselves and their wives are treated like they don’t matter. So it gives me good feeling to know that there are more and more men out there that are aware of the fact that women deserve happiness too. I’m just happy to see that in India, we are finally taking a turn for the better. Even if it goes fairly slowly.

4. Do you get aroused or horny in during your calls?

Hahaha, uuhmm yeah ,sure I do. I can honestly admit that that is also something really great about my job. I can have “sex” with multiple men every day haha. Some of these men are regular callers and with them I have built a great relationship which makes it even more exciting. Because you start to get to know each other, you see. After a while we know each other’s turn ons and that can make all the difference when having a hot steamy chat. I even use sex toys on myself at times. Callers ask me to do that sometimes and when i’m in the right mood i do it. Not just for them, but also because i like it myself. Btw, if you are ever looking to buy some sex toys for a great price: www.adultproductsindia.com. Great online shop, good quality and service. And the shipping is free! Sometimes, when i get to know a regular caller really well, I wonder what they look like. I’ve asked them that too. I mean, when you first start calling each other your mind starts to visualize what the other person looks like. He can see a picture of me on the website but I can’t see him. So I visualize , but a lot of that is based on his voice. Turned out on a few occasions that I was way off with the picture I had of him in my mind. But I have to stay professional though. I can’t let these temptations get the best of me. Who knows what a guy is really like, you know. Let’s say I would get personal with a caller in real life. Before you know it he would probably want me to quit my job as he doesn’t want to share me with other men etc. Then I would have to give up my life as I know it and love so much? No thank you. All in all, it is a job. So I definitely need to stay professional about it. Period!

5. Are there things you do not like about your job as Indian phone sex operator?

Well, like I said, some men want to meet in person, but that is not something I do. I don’t really mind them asking me but some of these guys are really persistent you know. They promise me the world if I agree on meeting up with them. And then sometimes they just keep begging me and stuff. That’s the part where I get turned off of a guy. I mean, we can have a great time while calling, sure, but when I say no he just has to accept that right. As you know it’s also against company rules so that’s also a good incentive to stay professional about it. I’ve been thought not to mix business with pleasure and I fully understand why that is. Who knows what kind of ugliness can come from it. Mostly i tell them to go search online for dating sites, like Indian sex dating or someting like that.
And sometimes the technical aspects of my job are a bit less fun. Hold-time factors are of course important for a company but for me as a operator that is sometimes a bit difficult. Because some people just hang up after some time because they are very shy. And that is affecting my statistics. Also I don’t want to drag a conversation longer than it should be because I like to maintain a certain quality standard in my conversations. If I deliberately start extending the conversations people will notice and I will fall out of grace with them. So for me it’s quality over quantity. But overall I just love my job.

6. Do your friends and family know your are into the indian phone sex business?

No, most of them do not. I think that some of my relatives and friends would definitely not be able to appreciate what I do for a living. But I do tell them I work from home being a call centre girl and a virtual assistant. But I do notice a shift in how our society looks at sex in general. It’s becoming more and more openly accepted, but we are not there yet. So until then, I will keep it underground, which also adds a certain spice to the job, you know, haha. Yeah I know, I’m a naughty girl. So what.

7. What kind of people are calling you?

Well, the majority of the people that call me have an Indian background. But that doesn’t mean that they necessarily live in India. Many of them also call me from America, UK, Australia. You name it. But mostly they live in India of course. A lot of them want to speak Hindi with me and that gives me a great advantage over some other girls as well. But there are people from other backgrounds that call me too. Occasionally I get someone who is white, or Arabic and even Asian like Chinese or something. I guess we girls from India are in demand worldwide hahaha. I can speak English with the foreign guys, no problem. Oh yeah, speaking of  getting strange calls earlier. I got a call from a couple once. Married that is. They were both curious about erotic telephone chatting and at the same time they were kind of jealous I think and they would not let their partner make a call separately. So they both called me. But in the end it was the man who spoke the most and I think that he just let his wife join the conversation because she insisted. I remember expecting him to call me again on his own but I never heard from him again. Or maybe he called but I just didn’t remember him. Anyway, that was a weird call too. I guess you could say that about 98% of the callers are men, but I have also had an occasional female caller. Having a female caller for a change was really funny and pretty hot too! I mean, not that I’m bi curious or anything but I really could enjoy the conversations. Women seem to go a bit slower I think but it is a bit difficult to really conclude since they hardly ever call. But yeah, we women differ from man anyway so I think it is safe to say that. All in all I think they were just curious about me and of course about Indian phone sex.

8. You think you will remain working as a pso for a long time?

Uuhmm, I think so yes. I mean, I can’t say how long exactly but right now I feel like I can keep on doing this for a while. I’m still enjoying the work very much and I have no boyfriend or anything at this moment so yeah, why not you know. Of course eventually I will have to give up this life style as I know it but not right now. The pay is good, the work is fun, so, what more can a girl want? I’m still pretty young and have no intentions to settle any time soon, but who knows. If the right guy comes a long and he sweeps me off my feet I will definitely give it all up for him. But I’m in no rush hahaha.

9. Will you then tell him that you work as a Indian phone sex operator?

Hahahaha, wauw! Uhm, I don’t think so. I don’t know, I just might. I think I will have to see first what kind of person he is. Of course he has got to be open minded up to some point as I am too but maybe he isn’t as much of a free spirit as I am. So, I don’t know. Can’t say anything sensible about that yet. Other than that I really want to tell him this if I think he can handle it. I’ll just be like, honey , I’m an Indian phone sex girl, hahahahaha. No, im kidding, haha, I don’t know.

Thank you Sharmila for a great interview. You have been wonderful to talk to.
Your welcome, it was a great interview indeed. For anyone out there reading it: If you are a caller and you want to have a great chat, call me. We will definitely have some fun. And oh yeah, if you are a girl thinking about becoming an Indian phone sex operator too: Phonesex.in is THE website to be! Hahaha, big kisses. Bye!